Saturday, December 30, 2006

Book Review – The Primal Teen


Got a chance to finish this book on vacation and I must say I enjoyed it. If you would like to see where you can get a copy just click on the books picture.
Two key thoughts that I pulled from this book are: youth brains are still developing during their whole adolescent years and that the knowledge of this should encourage all of us who have youth in our lives to maximize the relationships we have with them.
The youth’s brain is still developing during their whole adolescent years wasn’t an unknown concept to me but one that I thought was common knowledge. I found from reading that most people have thought that the youth brain has completed its development. This book argues that this isn’t true. “Giedd (a key resources for this book) has now detected continued growth in a number of key areas of a teenager’s cerebral cortex, including the parietal lobes, which are associated with logic and spatial reasoning, and the temporal areas, which are linked to language. And perhaps most important, he discovered complex, ongoing growth in the frontal lobes, the area right behind our foreheads, the brain’s so-called policeman or chief executive, that helps us plan ahead, resist impulses, in essence be grown-up. (pg. 16)” If this is true no wonder our youth act the way that they do. The book goes on later to say: “The teenage brain may, in fact, be briefly insane. But, scientists say, it is crazy by design. The teenage brain is in flux, maddening, and muddled. And that’s how it’s supposed to be. (pg. 8)” I like this idea but I believe that the teenage brain was “designed” by God to be the way that it is.
This then leads me to my other key thought – that with the knowledge that the teen mind is still growing we who work and live with teenagers should be encouraged and be there for the teens. The information in this book talks about some key people in teens lives that can and are impacting them as their brains change. “teenagers’ success, isn’t based on immutable attributes such as wealth and race, but on more mundane things like having at least one adult who cares about them and being connected to their school. (pg. 85).” This is really encouraging to me as I often think that what I do with middle school students means little sometimes. “A survey found that 75 percent of teenagers were religious and considered their parents heroes. HEROES! (pg. 86).” Now that is an awesome thing to think about especially since this book comes from a very evolutionary point of view and yet it says that parents are heroes to kids. The book encourages us adults “to function like a surrogate set of frontal lobes, an “auxiliary problem solver. (pg 35)” This idea is the biggest take away I got from this book. To be there for the teen as they change and move from adolescents to adulthood. “Adolescence as one of the most necessary and crucial steps in human development – one that should not be just endured, but indulged, even celebrated. (pg 218)”
I do caution anyone who wants to read this book to understand that Barbara Strauch is a medical science and health editor of the New York Times. A number of things said in this book I completely disagree with. It talks a lot of our “evolutionary” process throughout the book which is based on the theory of evaluation which is unfortunate but not unexpected.

Friday, December 29, 2006

My desire to be a resources to my brothers, sister, and sister-in-law has started.

One of my heart’s desire is not only to be the best jr hi guy that I can be for the glory of God but also to be the best uncle to my nieces and nephews that are now and will be in jr hi. I also want to be a recourse to my nieces and nephews moms and dads. Tonight was the start of that.

I got a chance to set down with my wife’s sisters oldest son Michael (he is 12) for about an hour talking about life. It was a great talk and one I hope to repeat throughout the years with him. He is a bright young man who has been growing like crazy and I’m a proud uncle. We talked about sports and his baseball ability, how to handle unfair situations, and relationships in different parts of his life. I pray that the words I’ve shared with Michael come from God and not from me. This is going to be a great time as a number of my nieces and nephews will become jr highers soon and some day all of them will past through this awesome time.

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Next two books I'm planning reading

Just a quick note to share my next two books I'm planning on reading:

The primal Teen by Barbara Strauch

Getting Things Done by David Allen

Book Review - Good to Great


Book Report – Good to Great by Jim Collins

Jim Collins finished his preface by saying, “I hope you will find much of value in these pages and will commit to applying what you learn to whatever you do,” and I must say I found much hope and value in this awesome book. The idea that a big business book could help a little jr hi guy had never really crossed my mind but the ideas from this book can help my ministry is so many ways. The biggest take away for me is the idea of a level 5 leader. These level 5 leaders were CEOs in 11 companies that became good to great companies. These men lead there companies with two key points that I wish to lead the jr hi ministry (IMPACT) at New Covenant with: To be humble and to know how to put the right people on the bus.
To be humble was to be a man that would give praise to everyone else when the company was doing well and not themselves. But also a man that would put a mirror in front of themselves and take the blame when the company wasn’t doing well.
The other point was to know how to put the right people on the bus. The level 5 leaders found that it was more important to get the “who” in place for their company before the “what.” They knew that they wanted passionate people who were excited and behind the company before they started guiding the company to what they were good at.
Jim Collins finished the book with a chapter called, “From good to great to built to last.” My heart is to move IMPACT to be a great ministry that points jr hi kids to our Father and to do that for as long as God wants.

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Snow Day game

Here is a fun online game to play the next time you are snowed in and borred of reading blogs - http://www.ebaumsworld.com/penguinswing.html

Friday, December 08, 2006

Diet Coke and Mentos

I don't know how many of you have ever seen what happens when you put a mentos in a Diet Coke bottle but it is very interesting. Check out this video to see what a couple of guys can do with this interesting combo.

HT - Marko (president of youth specialties) for this link

First 8th grade night


IMPACT (our jr hi ministry at NCBC) does something really awesome through the school year. About once a month we have 8th grade night (This is our current 8th graders motto and logo). This is the night our 8th graders are completely in charge of the whole night. This year was the first year where we had no adults up front to help the 8th graders lead the group. I've been looking forward to moving IMPACT to the point where 8th graders could completely lead our wed. night program and it has happened and I loved it. Was it perfect and smooth - hahaha - no but it was done with excellence for a group of 8th graders.

Here is how the night went. One of our boys MCed for the night and he open the night with announcements and how the night would go. Then another boy taught us a new dodge ball game that sounded really complicated to start with but was really fun. Then our unleashed worship band lead our group in great worship time. The young lady who lead shared a powerful thought from Tim Hughes. Then two 8th graders shared a powerful message on friendship. That a good friendship has these key parts:

Key 1 - They talk - Prov. 18:24
Key 2 - Similar Interests - The story of David & Jonathon is all about their interests
Key 3 - Faith - Ecc. 4:9,10,12

It was a great night and I'm really excited about what the rest of our 8th grade nights will be like.

Friday, December 01, 2006

Sonic is HERE - YEA!

This morning at 6:15am my daughter and I got up, put our close on, and went to the opening of SONIC in Cedar Rapids, IA. I'm crazy about sonic as it was the restruant I grew up with at my home town of Lyons, KS. It was the place to go. Both my brothers worked there (one of them managed it for a number of years), I took a number of dates (in high school) there, and have introduced my wife and family to sonic there. It has a family history with me and I'm excited to have it here so that we can make more memorize.

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